I just got divorced and I’m a mess. Socially I’m out of touch and physically I’m not a happy camper. How am I at 50 going to be able to compete with 30 year olds? It’s not a competition; it’s about you being happy with you. Give yourself an honest once over. What do you [...]
I found out that my ex changed the address at the school to his address only. Now I don’t get the kids’ report cards and other notifications. Is there legal action I can take? Rule #1, avoid legal recourse if at all possible. So many times people run to their attorney to show their ex [...]
What can I do to stop my ex-husband from telling lies about me to anyone who will listen? I’m losing friends left and right. All I can say is that they weren’t really your friends. Those that know you will know to turn a deaf ear. Shakespeare was a wise man when he said, “The [...]
What do I do with my wedding and family pictures now that I’m divorced with children? If you have loose pictures hanging around that need to be put in albums, perhaps you can put them in a box until you are ready to go down memory lane and organize them. By that time, you will [...]
According to our agreement, my ex is required to notify me of school activities, etc., but she never does. I always miss things and I keep asking, but she ignores me. Simple, my friend, be proactive. Call the school, email teachers, coaches, etc. and ask them to please include you when sending out papers or [...]
My ex and I have different parenting styles. I don’t like that my kids have conflicting rules and expectations. This is a tough one and all I can say is acceptance and consistency. It’s a big pill to swallow (one of many) that you don’t have control of what goes on at your ex’s house, [...]
I’m moving out. Is it best to get a place close to the kids and my ex? Close proximity is always best for convenience sake. If the kids forget something at one of the houses (and they will) and for pick ups and drop offs. How close is up to you. Factors to take into [...]
I just can’t get past wanting to get revenge on my ex. There’s an old saying: “The best revenge is a good life.” There is a reason why you got divorced. Remember what that is and ask yourself, “Do I still want to let my ex control me?” Whoever angers you, controls you. Let it [...]
